Thats How It Is, But Not How It Is Mean't To Be

If someone is against relationships before marriage{Boyfriend/girlfriend}, he is taken to be a homo or even to some, he is referred to as shy{half a man}.
If she is a lady, she’s taken to be a lesbian.
One who attends shalat {prayers} on time is called a saint.
So obedient to the parents, then to some, that’s daddy’s or mummy’s boy/girl.

When one Changes girlfriends or boyfriends almost every day, then that is taken to be the way of life.
Divorce is now a tradition.
Those who commit Adultery take it to be a mere mistake but not a sin.
Those who use DRUGS are considered to be doing it because of stress.
The majority consider using condoms as the best solution in preventing HIV Aids.
Youthful Marriages are only considered to be traditions for rural citizens.

He who doesn’t own the latest Smartphone is considered not fit to live in the current world.
Listening to the Quran is considered to be boring.
Religious gatherings are now referred to as granny and grandpa gatherings.
Muslim schools/institutes are now taken to be terrorist training centres/grounds.

The Mosque is occupied by a handful of people.
Music Concerts are seen as the best place to cool down the stress from a heavy work load.
Donating 1USD is taken to be wastage of money, a ticket of 1000 USD for a concert is seen as cheap and as a fair cost.

May Allah always bless us with the ability to stay on the right path as well as to be able to differentiate between what is right and what is wrong!

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When Our Expectations Don’t Match With The Reality..

As Human beings, our most important duty is to fully rely and continuously seek for Allah’s help as well as directing all our maximum effort to what we want to achieve in life. But important of all, we should know that Allah always the draws the best plans for our lives.

Incase we plan to start up a business, plan to study abroad, plan to marry or even any other plan. Automatically there are two possibilities which can happen. All will match with our expectations or the reality is not even close to our expectations. When our plans do not match with the reality, feelings of sadness, anger and disappointment are automatically felt within our lives. It’s from here that Allah gives us two more other choices. Whether to get angry and go against the reality and fate its self , there after Conclude that Allah is so wicked due to the fact that He didn’t allow us to realise our expectations and plans  Or one may choose to be sincere, accept the reality hence thereby decide to make a new plan.

From a story of one of the survivors of the air Asia flight tragedy-Indonesia. 
There was one passenger who was angry due to the fact that she missed the flight due to her delay in arrival at the airport. She was so angry, sad and disappointed because she had to buy a new ticket. 
But after a few hours later on, news began circulating that the plane had crushed. In the end, she thanked Allah for saving her from the tragedy its self.

We may like something which in reality is not good for us, But also, we might dislike something which in reality is good and of great importance for us.

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IT’S NOT YOUR PARENT’S FAULT, YOU RATHER HAVE A CHOICE TO MAKE!!!

There can be an Elder without Children, But there can never be a child without a parent. It’s not our choice to be born by parents who are rich or poor, Famous or infamous because it’s all due to Allah’s Predetermination which cannot be changed by any human.

But we have a chance to make a choice, that’s a choice to become a righteous child or the opposite.
A choice to honour our parents or rather choose to neglect them

We all have a chance to change our fortune. We can choose to live a poor life or strive to become rich.
As human beings, we have a chance to make a choice of whether to seek knowledge or rather stay ignorant
and other important choices.

For that reason, it’s all meaningless if we blame our parents that they raised us within a poor man’s lifestyle or even a moderate one but rather it’s us to determine the kind of status we live. They played a big role of raising us up since childhood; it’s not their role to determine our status.

Remember, Allah will never change one’s fate/fortune unless that person changes him or herself. That’s by how far we get in following the teachings of the Quran and Sunnah and also by how far we strive to change our financial status. Its then that Allah will open for us the doors to greatness

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