Friday, 30 January 2015

Your Memories Are Inclined To The Past, The Future Can Only Be Created Based On Your Dreams

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1. Do not worry about what has been done, it is better to worry about what has not been done and has to be done.

2. Past sins can be erased by good deeds and sincere repentance | future success has to be created with hard work and sincerity.

3. Regretting the past consumes the same energy just as planning for the future| the only difference is that one is built on memories and the other on hope.

4. An air balloon will be able to fly high when the load is released | the same as the heart will learn to understand when freed from thoughts of past sadness and failure

5. One of the attributes of Iman {faith} is not to be too proud when in possession of something | and not being too sad whenever we lose

6. Because life is like a seesaw, learn to laugh when down and learn to be worried when all is at its best| All Situations are not permanent, all definitely changes

7. Briefly keeping quiet or staying silent will give your ears a chance to do more listening | solitude will give you peace

8. Failure has its own ration, success comes at its own time | silence is the third worst choice between 2 options

9. Memories should serve as a lesson not the bottleneck | the future will always preserve a space for hope. 

Thursday, 29 January 2015

THE RARE SWEETNESS WITHIN CRYING, HAVE YOU EVER WITNESSED IT? IF NO, IS THERE ANY NEED TO WORRY?

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 Not that each and every time we cry does it show sentimentality or weakness. Islamic guidelines actually commend us to cry a lot for our being.. How so? Allah says: `` Those were the ones upon whom Allah bestowed favor from among the prophets of the descendants of Adam and of those We carried [in the ship] with Noah, and of the descendants of Abraham and Israel, and of those whom We guided and chose. When the verses of the Most Merciful were recited to them, they fell in prostration and weeping’’.  . ( Maryam [ 19 ] : 58 )
It is sunnah to cry in Islam, of course, not crying for any reason, but weep for fear of Allah SWT. We should fear Allah SWT .We meant to be afraid of him because we are all going to die and be accountable for our actions before Him. We fear, remembering very hard in punishment for those who commit immoral.
But unlike fear of other things that make us run away. The Fear of Allah makes us want to get closer and closer to him. This Fear brings serenity and spiritual enjoyment matchless. The Prophet himself was one who easily wept for fear of Allah SWT.
Crying for fear of Allah SWT, will make us get closer to Him and always strive to please. Tears like this that could save us from the fires of hell. We certainly want to be among the ones who will be protected and shaded by Allah in the hereafter. At a time where there will be no shade except Allah’s protection. A hadeeth from Abu Hurairah. He said, the Messenger of Allah Said: There are seven categories of people that Allah will shelter on the day when there will be no shade except His . The seventh is: a man who remembers Allah when he is alone and his eyes fill with tears. [Bukhari, Muslim] .

We deserve to ponder if we ever cry for fear of Allah . There must be something wrong with us . Maybe our hearts have been hardened , perhaps our soul are dried .Ya Allah, make us among those who when your verses are recited, they weep and remember you as well as live their lives just for you, just to please you, Ameen.

Reading the Qur’an Productively – A Guiding Light and Cure for The Soul

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One of the most intimate and serene moments is when you read the Qur’an and realize that, actually, it is reading you; that it is explaining the deepest, most intimate secrets in your heart.
It is amazing how this Book reads the human being, reads life and reads the universe.
Allah  said:
“We shall show them Our signs in every region of the earth and in themselves, until it becomes clear to them that this is the Truth. Is it not enough that your Lord witnesses everything?” [Qur’an: Chapter 41, Verse 53]
Through personal Evaluation and After going through different experiences in life, I came to realize that the Qur’an is sincerly one of the greatest manifestations of The Creator’s mercy to humankind. In the toughest situations, when one is almost completely shattered and broken, going through the pages of the Qur’an will ease the pain, put things in perspective and put one back on track with a clear vision of the destination ahead.
And We send down of the Qur’an that which is healing and mercy for the believers…” [Qur’an: Chapter 17, Verse 82]
You see, the human being's body, mind and soul. We know how to feed our body (food), we know how to feed our mind (education), but sometimes we neglect to feed our soul.
The Qur’an is the nourishment and healing of the soul.
In one of His ayaats, He the most merciful Says;
I swear by the setting of the stars, And indeed, it is an oath – if you could know – [most] great.Indeed, it is a noble Qur’an.”  [Qur’an: Chapter 56, Verse 75-77]
In this verse, Allah  swore by the setting, or the locations, of the stars that this is a most generous and noble Qur’an.
But what do the stars do? The stars guide and enlighten.
In one of his lectures, Sheikh Hamza Yusuf shared his insights on this saying, that if you talked to a pilot or someone travelling helplessly in the desert, and ask them what they would do if they got lost, they’ll tell you they follow the stars.
One star after the other guiding the person to his destination.
Similarly with the Qur’an. While reading the Qur’an, remember that there will be ayat (verses) that are especially and most intimately there for you. They’re there in this Holy Book, to be a guiding light to you.
Seek those verses. You may read a whole juz’ (chapter) per week, but there will be one verse (or a few) that will just touch you when you need it the most. Seek those ayat. Make sure you search for them and find them while reading. Those are your stars, your guide.
Do not merely set a target to finish a chapter per week, yet it has no effect on you. There would be no purpose to your reading the Qur’an in this manner. Remember that the Qur’an is basically a manifestation of Allah’s mercy and compassion for human beings whom He created.
So The Holy Qur’an is what you have from The One you belong to. It explains you. It explains life. It cures, guides, soothes and enlightens you.

Do not rush through reading the Qur’an without reflection  This is not the ultimate goal or ultimate success. The success is that it fills that time with light and wisdom and beauty, for you and everyone around you

The Lucky 7 Who Will Be Shaded By Allah

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سَبْعَةٌ يُظِلُّهُمْ اللَّهُ فِي ظِلِّهِ يَوْمَ لَا ظِلَّ إِلَّا ظِلُّهُ الْإِمَامُ الْعَادِلُ وَشَابٌّ نَشَأَ بِعِبَادَةِ 
اللَّهِ وَرَجُلٌ قَلْبُهُ مُعَلَّقٌ فِي الْمَسَاجِدِ وَرَجُلَانِ تَحَابَّا فِي اللَّهِ اجْتَمَعَا عَلَيْهِ وَتَفَرَّقَا عَلَيْهِ وَرَجُلٌ دَعَتْهُ امْرَأَةٌ ذَاتُ مَنْصِبٍ وَجَمَالٍ فَقَالَ إِنِّي أَخَافُ اللَّهَ وَرَجُلٌ تَصَدَّقَ بِصَدَقَةٍ فَأَخْفَاهَا حَتَّى لَا تَعْلَمَ يَمِينُهُ مَا تُنْفِقُ شِمَالُهُ وَرَجُلٌ ذَكَرَ اللَّهَ خَالِيًا فَفَاضَتْ عَيْنَاه
There are seven whom Allah will shade in His Shade on the Day when there is no shade except His Shade: a just ruler; a youth who grew up in the worship of Allah, the Mighty and Majestic; a man whose heart is attached to the mosques; two men who love each other for Allah’s sake, meeting for that and parting upon that; a man who is called by a woman of beauty and position [for illegal intercourse], but be says: ‘I fear Allah'; a man who gives in charity and hides it, such that his left hand does not know what his right hand gives in charity; and a man who remembered Allah in private and so his eyes shed tears.”
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]



1. A JUST RULER
The concept of justice is very important in Islam. Rather it is most important for the ruler to be just to the people regardless of seeing that they are rich or poor. A ruler must keep it in mind that Allah is the only one who can raise the ranks of people. If one is in any position of rule or command, it is only because of Allah and Allah alone. This concept also applies to a husband who according to Islamic law is the leader(Imam) within the family
A just ruler is one who gives right of all people whether Muslim or non-Muslim, relative or stranger, friend or enemy. Therefore  Allah has promised to keep the just and kind ruler under His Throne. But He has also warned those who are kind to the powerful but unkind to the weak ones
.
As the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said:
“Allah does not bless a people among whom a weak man is not given his right.”
[At-Tirmithi]
2. A YOUNG MAN WHO GREW UP IN THE TRUTHFUL WORSHIP OF ALLAH;
Youthfulness is understood to be the period of full strength and power. The heart of a young person is less contaminated with the evil deeds. We are passionate in this age. Fashion, gossips and dancing all are the temptations of the youth. But it is also the best time when one can prepare for Allah’s paradise/ Jannah.
Our Beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW) did also advise us in one of the narrations
Take  benefit of five before five: Your youth before your old age, your health before your sickness, your wealth before your poverty, your free time before you are preoccupied, and your life before your death”
– (Narrated by Ibn Abbas and reported by Al Hakim)
So let’s start from today. Why not use our health and power in the way of Allah. A way that will be rewarded by the Almighty Allah. Let’s make a list of goals to follow. Praying five times a day, reading Quran and forcing the bad temptations away from us and indulging ourselves in nothing otherthan all good prescribed by Allah and The prophet(PBUH)
3. A MAN WHO IS CLOSELY ATTACHED IS TO MOSQUE

Abu Ad-Darda’ (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Messenger (SAW) said:
“A masjid (Mosque) is the house of every pious and Allah has granted comfort and mercy for everyone
for whom the mosque is his house, and that they will traverse the bridge (As-Sirat) to Allah’s Pleasure
and Paradise.”
Surely a person who feels the most comfortable in the mosque will also indulge himself in praying to Allah in mosque.
As mosque is the house of Allah, if anyone enters the house of Allah: The Lord, He will bless him/her with His mercy and protection him from the heating of the sun on the day when their will be no shade except His.
4. THOSE WHO LOVE ONE-ANOTHER FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH
Allah the Almighty Says : “The believers are nothing else than brothers, so make reconciliation between your brothers, and fear Allah, that you may receive mercy.”
[Quran 49:10]
Loving someone for the sake of Allah is love solely for Allah’s sake and nothing else. Today we are friends with others because they look good or to have someone to compete with or maybe because they are of a similar tribe with us. But unfortunately friendship built on such a foundation never lasts. We need to look at our friends and see if these people our leading us to Jannah or taking us from the straight path. If your friends are asking you to go partying every night, how beneficial are they? If your friends are encouraging you to disrespect your parents or backbite, how great could they be?
If you love someone close to Allah for the sake of Allah, Inshya Allah you too will  be inclined towards Allah. And also just as the saying goes, a man is known by the company he boosts of. So having company of pious people will also help you in becoming pious. Having company of sinful people will also play a part in who we become.
BUT!!! It does not mean to be rude and look down towards other people or non Muslims. Rather helping others to come to the way of Allah is also our responsibility. We should also love them for the sake of Allah.
5. A MAN WHO REFUSES THE SEXUAL CALL OF A WOMAN DUE TO THE FEAR OF ALLAH
Allah has warned His followers from indulging in adultery.
Allah Says:”And get not near to adultery. Verily, it is a shameful (deed) and an evil way (that leads one to Hell).”
[Quran 17:32]
6. A MAN WHO GIVES IN CHARITY AND HIDES IT, SUCH THAT HIS LEFT HAND DOES NOT KNOW WHAT HIS RIGHT HAND GIVES IN CHARITY
A person who gives charity and hides it from people so that no one else knows the kind of charity he has given, Inshya Allah he has been promised to be under the shade of Allah on the Day of Judgment
Allah says:
“O you who have believed, do not invalidate your charities with reminders or injury as does one who spends his wealth [only] to be seen by the people and does not believe in Allah and the Last Day. His example is like that of a [large] smooth stone upon which is dust and is hit by a downpour that leaves it bare. They are unable [to keep] anything of what they have earned. And Allah does not guide the disbelieving people.”
Quran2:264
On the same matter, the Prophet (SAW) said that: “Secret charity puts off the wrath of the Lord.”
When you are hiding your charity then you are not showing it off and it confirms your charity is just for the sake of Allah and you will be rewarded by Allah on the Day of Judgment.
7. A MAN WHO IS ALONE AND SHEDS TEARS FROM THE FEAR OF ALLAH
A man whose heart is filled by love, reverence, and glorification towards Allah, for that he Mentions Allah in a lonely place without distruction from others: he mentions His Greatness, His Favors, and His Mercy, so his eyes shed tears out of yearning to Him. About such people, Allah says:
“The believers are only those who, when Allah is mentioned, feel a fear in their hearts and when His Verses (this Qur’an) are recited to them, they (i.e. the Verses) increase their Faith; and they put their trust in their Lord (Alone).”
[Surat Al Anfal: 2].
Allah  says: “And when they listen to what has been sent down to the Messenger (Muhammad peace be upon him), you see their eyes overflowing with tears because of the truth they have recognized.
They say: Our Lord! We believe; so write us down among the witnesses.” [Surat Al Ma'idah: 83].
 Ibn `Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
“(There are) two eyes that the Fire will never touch, the eye that wept from fear of Allah and the eye that stood guard in the night in Allah’s path.”
The Prophet Muhammad  (SAW) used to frequently cry from the fear of Allah and likewise were the righteous ones before and after him. Allah threatened the people who have stone hearts with the worst threat, when He said: “So woe to those whose hearts are hardened against remembrance of Allah! They are in plain error!” [SuratAz-Zumar: 22].

May We try to be among those mentioned above, may we try to be among those who will be protected from the burning heat of sun, those who will be under the shade of Allah because inshya Allah these lucky people will be in such comfort because they will be under comfort of the only shade available on that day and that is the Shade of the Lord; Allah. They will enjoy such an honor because of their piety and obedience to Allah while they were in this life.

True Love, A Concept Which Is Highly Misunderstood

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The love Muslim spouses have for each other is mean’t to be for the sake of Allah that is to gain His pleasure. It is from Allah that we claim our mutual rights (Quran 4:1) and it is to Allah that we are accountable for our behavior as husbands and wives. Love is not to consume but to sustain. Allah expresses His love for us by providing sustenance. To love in Islam is to sustain our loved one physically, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually, to the best of our ability (to sustain materially is the husbands duty, however if the wife wishes she can also contribute)
To love someone is to accept them for who they are. It is selfishness to try and mould someone as we wish them to be. True love does not attempt to crush individuality or control personal differences, but is magnanimous and secure to accommodate differences. Love challenges us to be all we can, it encourages us to tap into our talents and takes pride in our achievements. To enable our loved one to realize their potential is the most rewarding experience.
Mercy compels us to love and love compels us to have mercy. In the Islamic context the two are synonymous. The attribute Allah chose to be the supreme for Himself is that He is the most Merciful. This attribute of Rehman (the Merciful) is mentioned 170 times in the Quran, bringing home the significance for believers to be merciful. Mercy in practical application means to have and show compassion and to be charitable.
To love is to respect and value the person their contributions and their opinions. Respect does not allow us to take for granted our loved ones or to ignore their input. How we interact with our spouses reflects whether we respect them or not. A marriage full of love will inshya Allah lead to peace on this dunya and in the hereafter.

Verily Through The Remembrance Of Allah, A Wondering Heart Can Find True Peace!!!

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Truthfulness is beloved by Allah and is purifying soap for the heart. And there is no deed that gives such pleasure to the heart, or has greater reward, than the remembrance of Allah.
(Therefore remember me, and I will remember you)(Qur'an 2: 152)
Remembrance of Allah is His paradise on earth, and whoever does not enter it will not enter the Paradise of the Hereafter. Remembrance is not only a safe heaven from the problems and worries of this world, but it is also the short and easy path to achieving ultimate success. Read the various revealed texts that refer to the remembrance of Allah, and you will appreciate its benefits.
When you remember Allah, clouds of worry and fear are driven away, and the mountains that make up your problems are blown away.
We should not be surprised when we hear that people who remember Allah are at peace. What is truly surprising is how the negligent and unmindful survive without remembering Him.
)[They are] dead, lifeless, and they know not when they will be raised up.)
(Qur'an 16: 21)
O' whosoever complains of sleepless nights and is in shock over his misfortune, call out His Holy Name.
(Do you know of any that is similar to Him! [There is nothing like unto Him and He is the All-Hearer; the All-Seer])
(Qur'an 19: 65)
(Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest.)
(Qur'an 13: 28)
To the degree that you remember Allah, your heart will be calm and cheerful. His remembrance carries with it the meaning of total dependence upon Him, of turning to Him for aid, of having good thoughts about Him, and of waiting for victory from Him. Truly, He is near when supplicated: He hears when He is called and He answers when He is invoked, so humble yourself before Him and ask of Him sincerely. Repeat His beautiful blessed name, and mention Him as being alone worthy of worship. Mention His praises, supplicate to Him, and ask forgiveness from Him: you will then find - by the will of Allah- happiness, peace, and illumination.
(So Allah gave them the reward of this world and the excellent reward of the Hereafter) (Quran 3: 148)

The Position Of A Mother In Islam

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Allah loves and cares for us more than anybody else, and he especially loves those people who love and care for others. Similarly, he becomes very angry with those people who hurt other people in any way. Allah the All-Knowing, knows that in this world nobody is more loving and caring towards another person than the way that a mother is towards her child. Only Allah and his Messenger May Allah send peace and blessings upon him love you more than your mother!
Only Allah knows what your mother does for you, He sees your mother feeling pain whilst she tries to give you whatever you want. He sees your mother’s love and kindness. Pleased by your mother’s actions, Allah has given her a very high status and many virtues and rewards.
Allah also sees that many of us are not thankful to our mothers. He sees many of us being disobedient towards them. Therefore, Allah has ordered us to be good towards our mothers; he has not advised us but ordered us; we have no choice; therefore we have to be good towards our mothers! To encourage us to do this, Allah Taa’la has promised paradise for those of us who are obedient towards our mothers. At the same time, Allah has threatened to severely punish those of us who do not listen to our mothers or hurt them in any way

A Taste Of Death; One Of Allah's Promises That We Tend To Overlook

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Death is not a disaster, but simply a passing from this world onto the next.It knows no skin colour nor age. Death should actually make us reflect and ponder about the purpose of life, and what will become of us after death.
Every day we see examples of death. Friends & loved ones get to pass away each and every day. Sometimes We perceive a peaceful death as one with neither pain nor violence. However, this is not necessarily the case. When a person dies, the soul leaves the body, and so the physical appearance of the body may not reflect the situation of the soul. The peacefulness or unease of the soul will be a direct result of how well a person fulfilled their purpose in this life, and has little to do with the cause of death.
Consider an example of two people who have a one-way ticket to a destination they have never been to before. The first person takes the time to learn about the language, culture and practices relating to the destination. He acquires the right currency and vaccinations, and when it comes time to travel, he arrives without any surprises. He is safe and content, because he has taken the time to prepare.
In contrast, the second person is careless in his preparations and simply lives for the moment until the time comes to depart. He arrives at the unknown destination scared and confused. His unpreparedness causes him to end up with a dreadful fate, as all of the things he has brought with him were of no use. 
Describing such a heedless person, Allah says in the Qur’an: 
“When death comes to one of them, he says, ‘My Lord, send me back! So that I can do good in the things I neglected.’ By no means! It is a mere word that he speaks.”Qur’an 23:99-100
Also consider the response of those people consigned to hell, when they are questioned regarding what put them there: 
“They will say, ‘We were not of those who prayed, nor did we feed the poor. And we used to enter into vain discourse with those who engaged in it, and we used to deny the Day of Recompense (the Day of Judgment) until there came to us the death that is certain.’ ”Qur’an 74:43-47
We all have an appointed time with death, and we will all travel to this unfamiliar destination. Ask yourself - have you prepared for it?

Contentment: A Paradise On Earth

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In Our ignorance or haste, we mistake evil for good, and we desire what we should not have. The wise and instructed soul has patience and does not put its own desires above the wisdom of Allah. He receives with contentment the favours of Allah, and prays to be rightly guided in his desires and petitions
If we were to cry when it is night, we shall look foolish when it is day; for the night is but a preparation for the day: thus, we pray for the day when we want rest for the night. Both are signs from Allah. Darkness and light stand for ignorance and knowledge. "Where ignorance is bliss, 'it’s folly to be wise". Darkness and light may also stand for shadow and sunshine, sorrow and joy: but both are necessary for our development.
Let us be patient and seek everything as from Allah-in joy and in sorrow, in knowledge and in want of knowledge of those things which are beyond our reach. Let us rejoice in what Allah has given us, and not be impatient about those things which He in His wisdom has thought fit to withhold from us

Rational and Quranic Evidence To Show That The Quran Is The Speech Of Allah To His Messenger Muhammad(saw)

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One of the most demonstrative and logical evidences which prove that the Quran is the revelation of Allah to His Messenger(PBUH),is the fact that Allah had challenged the unbelievers of Quray-esh to produce a book like the Qur'an.Although the Qur'an was revealed in their own language,and they were masters of influence,eloquence,poetry and literature,they failed even to produce one surah like it.Allah stated that if all of mankind,supported by jinn,try to produce a book like this Qur'an,they will never be able to produce the like of it:

>>Say: "If the whole of mankind and jinns were to gather together to produce the like of this Qur'an,they could not produce the like thereof,even if they backed up each other with help and support<<(QUR'AN 17:88)
As the words of Allah are communicated to mankind through a messenger sent from Allah,consequently,Muhammad who communicated the Qur'an to mankind is a messenger sent From Allah.This has been stated in the Qur'an:-
>>Muhammad is not the father of any of your men,but(he is) the messenger of Allah,and the seal of the prophets:and Allah has full knowledge of all things<<(Qur'an 33:40)

Allah also said:
>>We have not sent thee but as a "messenger" to all mankind giving them glad tidings,and warning them (against sin),but most men know not<<(Quran 34:28)

Allah said:
>>We sent thee not,but As a mercy for all creatures<<(QURAN 21:107)
Truely the quran is a book from Allah and Muhammed is a Messenger of Allah.May Allah's mercy descend upon him and to All those who Follow his way
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