When Our Expectations Don’t Match With The Reality..

As Human beings, our most important duty is to fully rely and continuously seek for Allah’s help as well as directing all our maximum effort to what we want to achieve in life. But important of all, we should know that Allah always the draws the best plans for our lives.

Incase we plan to start up a business, plan to study abroad, plan to marry or even any other plan. Automatically there are two possibilities which can happen. All will match with our expectations or the reality is not even close to our expectations. When our plans do not match with the reality, feelings of sadness, anger and disappointment are automatically felt within our lives. It’s from here that Allah gives us two more other choices. Whether to get angry and go against the reality and fate its self , there after Conclude that Allah is so wicked due to the fact that He didn’t allow us to realise our expectations and plans  Or one may choose to be sincere, accept the reality hence thereby decide to make a new plan.

From a story of one of the survivors of the air Asia flight tragedy-Indonesia. 
There was one passenger who was angry due to the fact that she missed the flight due to her delay in arrival at the airport. She was so angry, sad and disappointed because she had to buy a new ticket. 
But after a few hours later on, news began circulating that the plane had crushed. In the end, she thanked Allah for saving her from the tragedy its self.

We may like something which in reality is not good for us, But also, we might dislike something which in reality is good and of great importance for us.